Nostalgia is a happy reminder of that which was. Sometimes, we are reminded not so happily of skills we no longer possess. A friend of mine asked me to hand write a one-page, retirement tribute to her husband. He’s a long-time friend, and I’m honored to write this piece that will she’ll put into a keepsake book for him to reminisce on in retirement.
My concern is the handwriting part. Moving from writing regularly in script to using typewriters, key pads, and iPhones, some (many?) of us have lost that free form skill and/or the will to frequent longhand writing. My semi-legible, script letters now all blend together; I inadvertently skip letters in words. Heck, even greeting cards where I attempt to be thoughtful and/or clever are mistake-ridden!
And when one invariably messes up a word, there’s no ink eraser, back space, delete, White Out, or Correct Tape you can use without the result like an indelicate klutz screwed up the overpriced, store-bought card. Handwriting papers, cards, notes, memos, and such shows a genuine, caring, personal touch no doubt; yet it just feels so retro and inefficient as we’ve modernized.
My mind wandered, remembering the old days working with my retiring cohort. I began drifting beyond mere thoughts of simple days when handwriting skills were de rigueur- when we had no keyboards, emails, phone texting, delete buttons, et al.; when typewriters and longhand were king. I then mentally leapt and found myself recalling cool places we used to go that are now mere memories, like some of my capabilities. These institutions may be gone, but hopefully I can patiently revive my dormant, dexterous deficiencies for a simple one-page tribute.
Remember Yum Yum Tree, King’s Bakery, Bubbies, Kuhio Grill (where the more one dollar bills you plunked down on your table, the more quality pupu you were served)? Ever chanced a Spencecliff restaurant, Columbia Inn, Byron’s, Pearl City Tavern, Flamingo Chuckwagon, the Willows, Hee Hing, Maple Garden, Chico’s Pizza, King Tsin, Kenny’s, or The Third Floor (stately wicker chairs in Waikiki and naan bread)? Merely the tip of Oahu’s long-gone culinary iceberg. Liberty House, Shirokiya, Jelly’s, Star Market, Arakawas, Hopaco, Tower Records, S.H. Kress, Woolworths? Like dear friends we cherish, these places had a room in our hearts, wallets, and/or minds. It’s nice to reminisce on people and places, and fondly write about them… on a computer, of course.
Think about it…









