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Swimming Upstream – MidWeek April 24, 2024

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Perseverance, resiliency, persistency, adaptability. Emotions, traits, or learned skills? These concepts can represent powerful tools in one’s personal arsenal. ‘Twas Charles Darwin who said: “It is not the strongest species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the ones most responsive to change.” In our lives we often come to crossroads, and while change can be quite difficult, change we must… sometimes. 

Change is good… as long as it’s good change. Simply suggesting change doesn’t make it good or correct in and of itself. Leaders or hopeful change masters need buy-in when advocating for change. They need impassioned rationale that can be embraced and/or believed in. Ah, but sometimes you gotta adapt and change on your own.

Like on March 29 in Northeast Oregon… A 40-ton trailer overturned while transporting 102,000 live salmon (who counted?!) to be released in the Imnaha River to invariably migrate to the ocean, thereby circumventing the many northern river dams in place. This man-made process has moved fish downstream for 40 years.

So here comes the amazing part of this semi-disaster. The crashed tanker slid down an embankment of Lookingglass Creek. More than 76,000 smolts (young salmon) slid or flopped down the creek embankment in desperation, making their way into the creek, and most are expected to make it down through the Grande Ronde River to the Pacific Ocean- the original goal. Incredible! Without a GPS. Members of the Nez Perce tribe, hatchery workers, and the local sheriff’s office worked together to guide those who couldn’t make it into the water on their own, and cleaned up those who perished.

A fine example of perseverance, true grit, adaptability, and instinctual survival tactics. A life-saving example that when things go haywire or don’t work out- live to fight another day. Longtime Washington Post advice columnist, Carolyn Hax, recently wrote back to a querying parent about whether or not to coddle troubled teenagers by suggesting that they need to experience adversity along the way. “They need this because every life has some element of frustration, loneliness, rejection, mistreatment, misunderstanding, raw deals, disappointment, disaster and dream-crushing. And after that comes Tuesday.” 

Philosopher Friedrich Nietsche said: “What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger”. 77,000 salmon found strength amid disaster. Life’s road is not an easy, smooth ride; it sometimes feels like an overturned truck. Yet overcoming adversity is an integral part of growing up, right through adulthood.

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The ABCs of CBOs – MidWeek March 13, 2024

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Organizations that deal with crises all the time locally are facing crises not of their own making. The Hawai`i True Cost Coalition is comprised of more than 50 community-based organizations (CBOs) that annually serve over a half-million residents in Hawai`i. 

The Coalition is attempting to rectify the decades-old problem of government underfunding for government-based projects so that agencies can continue to provide support for victims of domestic abuse, housing for foster/at-risk youth and other low-income individuals/families, food distribution for those in need, elderly services, homeless outreach, mental health counselling… the list goes on and on. Pick a social problem, and odds are an agency dealing with it that that has to come up with its own funding due to government underpayment (and slow payment) for government-initiated programs.

It’s beyond unfair that local nonprofits must continue to have this financial burden placed upon them by archaic pay scales; the last few years (with COVID and the Maui wildfires) have made things even more difficult for so many agencies that so many rely on.

Full disclosure- I work at Aloha United Way, am involved with the True Cost Coalition, and thus help as a partner agency with Coalition members who are simply trying to make ends meet so that they can deliver social services so badly needed. If non-profit agencies cannot cover administrative and personnel costs to run government projects and programs, something’s gotta give… like services provided, having enough social workers available to do the work, etc. CBO-sourced grants and donations help, but the irony is that if non-profits must cut back services or close their doors, the onus to deal with social ills will invariably fall back on local government. Problems will compound, which will cost even more.

A 2022 survey of Hawai`i non-profits indicated that, in working on government contracts, 79% “always or often had to cut administrative costs”, 56% “always or often had to undercut staff salaries”, and 40% “…felt they may not be able to continue to operate in Hawai`i if government contracting challenges are not addressed”. Not good, not right.

The state has a budget crisis; that’s understood. But we’ll see disastrous, ripple effects if we experience a disappearance of or program cutbacks at efficient CBOs that help over 500,000 people locally because they are not being sufficiently funded by the very entities they contract with and who depend on them- the government.

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Shot Spots – MidWeek January 27, 2021

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While the availability of multiple vaccines portends a light at the end of this coronavirus tunnel, the human race must continue to show patience and caution. If vaccines are 90-95% effective in reducing COVID-19’s effects, that still means 5-10% of inoculated people will not be immune… even in Hawai`i. No big deal, you say?

Well, if one-million people locally get vaccinated, that would mean 50,000 to 100,000 inoculated people might still be capable of contracting the virus; plus 400,000 remaining unvaccinated resident adults and kids here. And furthermore, everyone should continue to wear masks, as the virus might still be transmittable by those vaccinated and personally immune. To help educate people, shot-getters locally should be given detailed, written information upon receiving their vaccinations to remind them to still wear masks, wash hands, and practice social distancing even if the vaccine makes them feel invincible. They’re not. The vaccine is a huge step, but it’s not the final word.

Another idea beyond printed handouts at vaccination sites is to take the vaccine to the people. Many people don’t like hospitals, group gatherings, or big city settings. For the elderly, frail, those who speak English as a second language, et al., convenient, localized sites- churches, community centers, school parking lots- might help. Bringing a solution to the people could encourage even greater participation.

A frustrating issue thus far has been coordinating vaccination site intricacies and vaccine arrivals, as authorities simply cannot control the scheduled shipments of the vaccines to Hawai`i. Late-arriving vials throw off orchestrated plans of vaccinators and vaccine recipients, messing up hundreds of schedules, as some of people have other plans on alternative dates. 

For the doubters- and I mean the vaccine doubters, not the lingering COVID-19 deniers- maybe we can take photos of respected, local leaders and influencers of various ages and ethnic groups getting vaccinated, and post those pictures on appropriate social media sites to encourage those still a bit unsure locally to get vaccinated. 

We have a chance now to curtail this (possibly) last wave of an insidious, evil invader. Far too many lost their COVID composure and compliance consistency over the holiday season, which led to far too many lost lives, or diminished lung capacity. Let’s help to bring this pandemic to a virtual standstill by remaining vigilant in dealing with the realities required in the upcoming, post-vaccine world of late-2021.

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Neoteny – MidWeek November 25, 2020

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Neoteny is Latin for “holding childhood”. It speaks to the innate capacity we all have as adults to retain childlike characteristics as we age. In this season of giving thanks, our innate neoteny is something that we should pay attention to and appreciate as we enter month #10 of  distancing, masks, and hand sanitizing. Ashley Montagu identified neotenous attributes in her book, “Growing Young”, mentioning playfulness, curiosity, humor, creativity, sensitivity, and wonder- all traits that might can refresh us, especially during these tough times. 

I learned of neoteny locally at Glenn Furuya’s phenomenal Leadership Works seminar on “Leadership Island Style”. Glenn teaches transformational development incorporating our unique, tri-cultural phenomenon here where East meets West meets Polynesia- a fabulous mix when featuring the best of each culture for business. Glenn reminds us that we can be adults without having to be aDULLts. He stresses never losing that child-like playfulness, that zest to learn more, have fun, view things without prejudice, see beauty, stare wide-eyed and gaze at the mundane anew. It’s a tool we all possess.

When we lose our flexibility as life and circumstances get too heavy, or when we bury it deep in the vast recesses of our minds, we ignore an integral part of our very being. When you’re young, you’re flexible. You don’t yet know what you don’t know- but you’re often willing to learn. Adults rightfully tiptoe through 2020 with COVID-19 as an invisible, insidious invader, so we need to dance, sing, paint, laugh, and reflect more often for counterbalance. We need to open up our minds to help solve issues that appear unrelenting, oppressive and even overwhelming. Neoteny can help to mitigate pain, no matter how much longer this stupefying pandemic lasts.

And what better place for neoteny to manifest itself than right here in Hawai`i nei?! Birds chirping, waves lapping, friendly people, majestic views we’ve ignored for far too long, unique and delectable food treats that remind us of younger days, laughing with a long-time friend, being consciously curious, creative, and carefree, even if for no reason at all. We once watched little Mikey instructed in the Life Cereal TV commercial- “try it, you’ll like it!”; neoteny is absolutely worth trying. It’s even been attributed as having impacted geniuses like Ludwig von Beethoven, Bill Gates, Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein and Pablo Picasso. Best of all, it’s available right now for free. Happy Thanksgiving!

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Shark Tales – MidWeek October 14, 2020

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There have been a number of shark sightings recently off of Waikiki’s Kaimana Beach. Reports indicated that sharks seen on October 3 were “not aggressive”.  Same thing on October 6. Huh? Was that meant to be reassuring, like go ahead… go tubing and thrashing because it’s OK, you won’t be perceived as chum.

The draw? There have been bait balls in the area, a term used to describe when small fish swim closely together to try and protect themselves from larger predators- like sharks. The low key reference to these beautiful, but often fearsome and fearless, creatures as “non-aggressive” relates to one’s individual perspective. To halalu baitfish (scad), this non-aggressive shark portrayal would be simply fake news. 

Humans often make their own choices in life. The mere concept of the word “shark” might give some pause before placing their torsos into the tranquil surf, adjacent to a visiting shark. Something about that dorsal fin in such close proximity could take the fun out of that planned, pleasure swim. When is a door not a door? When it’s ajar (get it- “a jar”). When is a shark not a shark? When it’s melancholy, I guess.  But if these cruising sharks became aggressive, descriptive adjectives would change to: unfriendly, hungry, lunch-seeking- or some other term of non-endearment.

And what clinically trained sharkologist rendered the definitive word for the media to anoint these reef sharks as non-aggressive? Perhaps these sharks were merely passive aggressive. Luckily, we haven’t found out over the past month of sightings, with warning signs properly posted and no unfortunate (human) incidents; no reef sharks have become “eek” sharks.

Multiple sharks feeding 25 yards offshore multiple times at the placid Sans Souci. Sans Souci is a name for the beach that goes back to 1884; it’s French for “without a care”. Well if these non-aggressive visitors keep returning, mellow as they seem, I’m just not sure that bathers will be swimming or frolicking without a care during “shark week(s)”.  

Nurse, leopard, angel, whale, thresher- there are numerous, non-aggressive shark types. In reality, fewer than 8% of the 300 shark species are a real danger to humans. Sharks worldwide kill an average of just four people (unprovoked) annually. And sharks locally can be considered an ancestor, or `aumakua. But I still think it’s best to observe these wily wonders of the water from a safe- and dry- distance.

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What We Want – MidWeek October 7, 2020

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This column is not about the post-COVID-19 dreams; it’s not about politics or red, blue or purple states; it’s not about how naïve or radical “they” are. It’s a simple tale about partnership. A study was conducted a year ago by researcher Andrew Thomas of Swansea University in Wales whereby 2,700 college students from Western nations (Australia, Norway, United Kingdom) and Eastern countries (Singapore, Malaysia) were queried about what, exactly, they were looking for in a mate for life, otherwise known as pair-bonding.

It’s estimated that only 5% of mammals mate for life, as humankind is grouped in a small cluster with beavers, wolves, and even some bats, to name a few of our bonding brethren. You undoubtedly have your own list of life partner priorities, but according to psychology lecturer Thomas, the #1 priority for men and women, East and West, is kindness. 

Seems reasonable… after all, 45+ years to be spent with someone (ideally) requires work, and having a shared appreciation for kindness can work wonders, especially during those tough times. After kindness, men favored physical attractiveness while women chose a man’s propensity to be able to provide financially. But kindness was easily the #1 requisite trait, far more important than other attributes mentioned in the study like creativity, religiosity, chastity, desire for children, and humor. Amazingly, one’s air guitar prowess did not make the “most wanted” list. Huh? While there are surely nuances based on cultural differences, at the end of the day we all want to hang out with someone who’s kind- friendly, generous, warm, decent, understanding, accommodating, compassionate, and present. 

Researcher Thomas commented that “…it’s great that kindness is king and appears to be a human universal”. Ah, if only we saw more of that in the world in general today. The lack of every day kindness around us goes beyond looking for our eternal soulmate. But let’s not venture down that dark, partisan wormhole this week. We’ve all earned a column this week bereft of political partisanship, paranoia, patronizing provocation, and the petty polarization of America. And now, back to kindness…

Kindness assumes a sense of empathy, a trait lacking far too often in opinionated conversation these days. Forget whether or not it’s about mate-seeking, sincere kindness can make even bitter indignation or disappoint a bit easier to tolerate. Kindness- a simple concept with major repercussions. Try it on…

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The New Reality – MidWeek September 30, 2020

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Slowly peeling back necessary restrictions is not going to save many local businesses hammered by the reality of seven months (so far) of COVID-19, plus quarantine, consumer wariness and weariness, costly safety measures, restrictive seating measures, minimal desire soon for large crowds at events, and sensible store traffic limitations.

We will not see local consumers rushing back to stores, malls, or restaurants soon. We will not see 10.4 million tourists visiting in 2021 or 2022. Estimates suggest that it could take five years, if we really want and get to that 2019 visitor count number again. What we need is creative collaboration, perhaps even unimaginable tax incentives and other lures to bring new business to Hawai`i. Hotels and tourist destinations will surely offer incentives soon. But how about local government working with the private sector to hopefully entice new business in the foreseeable future? Venture capital money is looking for opportunities, interest rates are low; now is the time to be entrepreneurial.

Some questioned metropolitan areas as they did backflips to convince Amazon to build its new headquarters (HQ2) in their towns. 238 cities bid, offering free land, community control, and property tax deferrals. One site purportedly offered to give Amazon employee’s state income taxes right back to Amazon! Crazy? Perhaps, but we are moving beyond “rainy day” options here as we look ahead six or 12 months. Rainy days? Prognostications indicate ground saturation and flooding. 

We need more higher-paying jobs and truly affordable housing for residents than we’ve seen over the past decade. Lots of talk for years, but little action. Tourism has been our gravy train; it’s now off the tracks. Unlike New Jersey, which offered Amazon about $7 billion to bring HQ2 there, we’re not looking to add residents, we’re just trying to keep residents from leaving in the coming years. 

Our exceedingly high cost of living and lack of quality jobs won’t permit a future of business as usual, and a vaccine won’t resolve our ongoing problems. In January, 2020, Aloha United Way (my employer) revealed that we had almost 200,000 Asset Limited, Income Constrained, Employed (ALICE) families in Hawai`i, a number also identified in AUW’s 2018 data. That was local reality pre-COVID-19. So let’s procure an East/West medical partnership, international space exploration facility, military adjunct, cybersecurity hub, science/technology expansion, ecotourism, media production facility, and/or alternate energy facilities? Or should we just wait?

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True Facts, Maybe – MidWeek September 16, 2020

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Those daily updates on the number of local COVID-19 cases are inaccurate. They represent official numbers- confirmed coronavirus cases. The Center of Disease Control (CDC), local medical prognosticators, and foreign studies indicate that the actual number of daily cases might be five to ten times greater than the daily confirmed and reported caseload. So if 220 cases here daily doesn’t cause you any concern, would you pay attention with 1,000 or 2,000 daily cases? Asymptomatic people (perhaps 80% of the cases) are less likely to get tested (since they feel OK) but can be so-called “super-spreaders”, so this invisible game of tag goes on. Estimates suggest that 20% of COVID-19 carriers are responsible for 80% of local virus transmissions. 

We will probably have the vaccines available by year end, but they might be just 50% effective. Flu vaccines annually are only about 50-60% effective. Yet even partially effective vaccines can mitigate virus impacts. Many people simply won’t get a vaccine… ever. Only 45% of Americans get the annual flu vaccine. And the people who do get a COVID-19 vaccine, do you think they’ll then assume they’ve acquired super-immunity status, and thus no longer adhere to rules about mask-wearing and social distancing? Not a smart idea. Plus, who knows how long any new vaccine’s effectiveness will last? Smallpox, polio, and measles vaccines provide long-lasting staying power. But only time will tell the efficacy of a single COVID-19 vaccination and if possible virus mutations down the road might necessitate annual vaccines.

We obviously need to do a better job here quarantining confirmed patients. Sending a pre-symptomatic or asymptomatic coronavirus patient home where others live is a possible ticking time bomb. Good luck segregating completely in Hawai`i with so many postage stamp-sized units, multiple generations in single houses, and neighbors living so close by that you not only hear them, but you can identify the song they’re singing in the shower.

The reality is- we’re tired. Many locally have done their best to isolate and do it all- working, parenting, providing, Zooming, creating- and they’re ready to come out and play. But don’t. COVID-19 is an insidious insider, takes no vacations, mandates no time off, and doesn’t sleep at night. Stay connected digitally, but don’t let your guard down. The “he’s a good guy”/“she’s probably safe” logic is problematic and underestimates how surreptitious this invisible droplet villain really is.

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Can Do – MidWeek September 9, 2020

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You might be running out of creative things to do while quarantining for the better part of six months, but there are things you can do that will actually make a difference during this whole nightmare. Two years from now, looking back at this “lost year” of 2020, will you say that you simply made it through, or will you say that you made a difference?

Plenty of non-profit agencies could use your help beyond a cash donation. And there are things you can safely from your own home. For example, the Waikiki Community Center normally has all kinds of wonderful activity for kūpuna in Waikiki. Waikiki has more kūpuna, per capita than anywhere else in the state. Over 18% of our state population is over 65 and more seniors live beyond the age of 65 in Hawai`i than anywhere else in the country. Lucky you live Hawai`i, again… But elderly stuck in isolation can cause physical changes that increase chronic disease risk and premature death.

So back to the Waikiki Community Center. Hula, food preparation, chess, bingo, and dancing at the facility have been out of the question for five months now, and many of the Center’s regular patrons live alone, without nearby family to check on them or even call them regularly. Here’s where you come in. You (and/or the kids) can make encouraging cards for nā kūpuna, send them word games or crossword puzzles; you can even send gift cards so that an elderly reader can then buy a book online.

Simply click on www.waikikicommunitycenter.org, or mail your goodies to the Waikiki Community Center at 310 Paoakalani Ave, Honolulu, HI., 96815. The Center has created a Virtual Community Center to provide informative, educational, fun at-home activities, and virtual exercise sessions focused on cognitive and physical learning, but some kūpuna simply aren’t adept with digital tools, or don’t have them readily available. 

Some of the faithful at the Waikiki Community Center can’t get out to buy food or necessary medical supplies; a few have even lost their life savings due to scams. Loneliness can lead to uncertainty, vulnerability, and false trust. And that was a reality before sleaze balls oozed out of the slime as COVID-19 took hold, causing even more consternation amid isolation, separation, and loneliness. It’s all about making a difference- even if done remotely and for someone you don’t know.

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Of Primary Concern – MidWeek August 26, 2020

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Here’s a thought for the new school year, if kids actually do go back to classrooms in force- put up large tents on campuses. They’re not being used for weddings or parties, so grab a few hundred military-grade tents and put them onto empty school playgrounds and fields, and hold classes outdoors, with greater safety. Minimize in-school traffic, separate the kids under tents, figure out how to use needed visual teaching aids outside, and you might have an answer for how to better space out and invigorate eight-year olds while keeping teachers safe(r)…

99% of the votes in our August 8 primary election came via mail- that’s amazing. And yet 49% of registered voters still didn’t bother to vote. Why you would register and then choose to ignore your civic duty is hard to comprehend. Even if you didn’t know all of the candidates, you can simply vote just in those races where you want to voice your opinion. 54,000 more people registered to vote in this primary than registered in 2018, and 120,000 more people actually voted- all good, but why pro-actively sign up, and then pro-actively not mail in a ballot? Busy binge-watching “Ozark”? Setting a personal best for Zoom calls? Watching yet one more mediocre iPhone, solo artist, music video? Ok, but that ballot was probably sitting in your house for quite some time, unless you tossed it early. Maybe November, yeh?

In the classic progressive rocker, “Us And Them”, Pink Floyd reminds us that “…after all, we’re only ordinary men”. Well, when it comes to vandalism, theft, and graffiti, we have met the enemy and he is us, not them (apologies to Walt Kelly and Pogo). Locals are trashing our parks, illegally accessing and camping, smashing urinals (what a fine, sporting achievement!), defecating in the bushes, and doing wheelies on the sand dunes. 

At Polihale State Park on Kaua`i; Ka`ena Point State Park and Aiea Bay State Park on O`ahu; at Kekaha Kai State Park and Kīholo State Park Reserve on Hawai`i Island. Even the visitors that some don’t want to see return never did this kind of damage. 1,000 people camped at Polihale one weekend in July, yet only 80 had legal permits. Aloha spirit? More like aloha spit! Grow up folks. Don’t show up. Stay home; stay safe for everyone’s sake. Local pride? Show some simple respect for the `aina.

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