There’s difficulty these days providing objective perspectives. Science and historically accepted truths are debated and bandied about endlessly, like a social badminton shuttlecock. Invariably, we end up in disagreement about so much with so many.
Facts (or maybe we should say “true facts” to be clear), by definition, should not be debatable. It’s the interpretation, twisted meanings, subtle nuances, and incessant bludgeoning with misinformation we se far too often via snippets, social media regurgitations, rampant politicizations, and deepfake crap that makes us weary, wary, and worried about information and “facts”.
Incessant posturing and subsequent pontification nowadays make one long for an era when simple storytelling among friends, co-workers, family and/or acquaintances was accepted with a nod and a smile, even if we knew that the presenter was kinda full of it on aspects of his/her oral saga. Who cared? Harmless non-inflammatory banter.
But nowadays, perhaps heightened by over two years of avoiding humans thanks to COVID, we are often on alert. We wait for someone to slip in a statement or phrase that gets our blood pressure up. One way to repair some of the angst about verbal damage in today’s who-knows-where-society-is-going whirlwind is to lighten up, relax; don’t take everything proffered as being laced with mal-intent and animosity.
Ultimately, one’s perspective can be quite subjective… based on each person’s own life experiences, expectations, where they’ve been, what they’re going through, how they’ve been raised, where their principles lie. While media-savvy wing nuts on either side of the political spectrum blabber, studies show that most people gravitate toward more centrist opinions and deeply held beliefs. Again, perspective is relative… even on manini topics. An amateur golfer shoots an 83 and laments having a “bad day” on the course while talking to a guy who’s never broken 95, who must be thinking “…what a whiner”. It’s all based on personal perspectives and presumptions. Some see a protective tree ahead to park under; others see inevitable bird droppings. Half-empty or half-full? Either way, there’s liquid involved- true fact. We can both drink.
We witness a ubiquitous lack of empathy and tolerance in today’s social landscape. I’m not naïve; It is hard to relax sometimes, especially when true facts are involved. Can we take a deep breath, realizing we’re not in this sitcom alone. “They” are not all evil and hopeless; we must all fit into the same room. What’s our option?
Think about it…