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Two weeks ago I traveled out of state. Yes, it’s certainly a hassle, but I did see some things while coming out of hibernation that gave me cause for joy and hope.

Things like people allowing others to go in front of them in line, people helping to remove their seat-neighbors’ bag from the overhead bin, with a “thank you” in response, people waiting patiently while the never-ending deplaning process proceeded slowly after a tiresome, delayed flight.

My empathetic wife always brings a small gift for flight attendants to thank them for their efforts, patience and service. Nowadays, I’m sure that’s more than just nice in the eyes of the recipients; I’m sure it’s also reaffirmation that humans still do care about the tedious work they do on the ground and at 30,000 feet. While we apparently have to hear about the losers from Darwin’s waiting room (a tiny minority, of course) who get headlines for their misguided, macho, mis-directional displays of frustration in retail stores and while up in the air, it’s really OK to share kind words or small gifts as little tokens of acknowledgment to people who serve us.

While Thanksgiving and the holiday season is obviously a renowned time for people to share niceties, tributes, and to generally act kinder, as I’ve stated many times in the past, it shouldn’t be that tough to ooze that sentiment, that consideration, for 12-months a year. It shouldn’t have to take morons misbehaving to administrative types, medical professionals, service industry stalwarts and others to make sure that the rest of us retain our civility toward one another, no matter how bad the last 21-months might have been for you.

And what better place would there be to calm the heck down and do what’s pono on a day to day basis than right here in the Aloha State? Thankfully, we don’t even honk here (usually). We use kind hand gestures to say “go ahead”, or simply wait a little longer at green lights, turns, or in lines. While that may sound trivial, take a trip to one of “those” cities, where the eighth guy in a car line starts honking when the light turns green…

Yes, I traveled recently; and airport personnel, flight crews, check-in executors, baggage personnel, and Safe Travels officials were as helpful and pleasant as could be. I might just travel again someday!

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End-of-year resolutions tend to be personal checklists to improve one’s health, outlook, relationships, career situation, etc. From the mundane (clean up the clutter, the gut, the gutter) to the aspirational (volunteer weekly at a charity or school), resolutions can encourage us to do more or do better.

But alas, come January 20, the clutter continues to pile up and we haven’t stepped on a scale since fireworks’ night out of reality fear. But maybe this time we’ve gotten a better grip on ourselves and what matters as we come out of the woodwork after nearly two-years. Maybe 2022 really will be the year of living differently, where we’ll take small, incremental steps to wellness in some aspects of our lives.

Wouldn’t it be great if we all would simply just be 10% better- kinder, more empathetic, giving more of ourselves to our kids, significant others, co-workers, neighbors and friends? That holiday season boost we feel annually around November/December, what if that lasted, like a beneficial booster vaccine, for months or years? What if we left reminders on our phone, work desk, and calendars to keep that holiday vibe alive as the monotony of day-to-day life creeps in by the time we hit 2^nd quarter next year?

What if we saw a health professional or military member standing in line at a quick service restaurant and opted to pay for his/her meal and simply said, “thanks for all that you do”? This is certainly not meant to be cloying, just an assessment of what we can do after a tough, extended winter, spring, summer, and fall of our discontent.

What if we consciously go out of our way to say “mahalo” to the administrative types who’ve handled far too many calls from far too many agitated people over the past 21-months? Or the store clerks and line personnel at our favorite locations who’ve had to deal with more risk than many, since their jobs don’t permit working from home?

We are the land of aloha, so this really shouldn’t be such a stretch… ever. Some comment on how rude people have become- in lines, on planes, driving, on the phone- which is possibly due, in part, to a very trying and frustrating couple of years. But we can change that, and the holiday season is a good time to pro-actively train ourselves for the rest of our lives.

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“‘Twas brillig and the slithy toves”… I’ve always wanted to lead with that mystifying start to Lewis Carroll’s nonsensical “Jabberwocky” poem from “Through The Looking-Glass”. It provides me some pre-holiday season liberties to jabber both nonsensically and seriously as we travel through our local looking glass…

Three weeks ago, Hawai`i Island firefighters roped and then hoisted a calf to safety, turning what seemed like a hopeless scenario into a happily ever after moment. The adept animal control division gurus calmly made sure not to cow the calf, fastened the fretting wanderer, and pulled her up to safely, telling passersby to relax, i.e. – don’t have a cow. The wayward calf returned to its lea, excised from an inaccessible beach location. With great help, it avoided becoming a cache cow…

Following a transition, 36 states, including Hawai`i, will require local callers to use 10-digits when making local calls, rather than the now familiar seven numbers. That’s because on July 16, 2022, the prefix “988” will become the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Rather than someone distraught having to remember the current 10-digit number, “988” will become a simpler source for help seekers. Like “911” (emergency) and Aloha United Way’s “211” (statewide information and referral), this easier three-digit number might provide easier relief for those in real need. And that’s a good call…

Math and language arts scores took a big hit last year in our public schools, as they did elsewhere, with distance learning the rule, and bumps along the hybrid highway. With kids (vaccinated and) back in classrooms now, hopefully we can move forward. But focus needs to be placed on how best to help our kids catch up and also move forward in the coming years. “Our keiki are our future” shouldn’t be anyone’s 2022 campaign slogan. We’ve heard it far too often. It’s a given. Now’s the time to prove that our kids really do matter, as they’ve fallen further behind through no fault of their own. Anyone listening?

The next time (well, hopefully there won’t one) family members cannot attend UH sports events due to pandemic-related safety restrictions, a cohort offered me a tongue-in-cheek solution that just might work. Make the relatives all UH band members du jour! Give the vaccinated parents a kazoo, let ‘em practice at rehearsals, and then let ‘em toot, root, and hoot with the already authorized band at UH games.

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Exoplanet 2M0437b. Does the name ring a bell? Well, it should. It’s the infant star of 2M0437. Maybe we can just call it “junior”. It was discovered by Mauna Kea astronomers and it’s discovery has caused great joy. The gas planet (too many baked beans?) is 2.5 quadrillion miles away… which looks like this: 2,500,000,000,000,000. Eh, you like go?

While some couples can’t agree on which way to situate the toilet paper roll on the holder by their toilets, we’re darn sure about this new 2-5 million year old exoplanet. And how do we know it’s that old, give or take a few hundred thousand years? Apparently, it’s still radiating heat and light and well… just trust us. While I find space and astronomy fascinating, I must admit that finding a new “thing” way, way out there sometimes leaves me mystified. After all, Columbia magazine reports that there are approximately two hundred billion stars just in our galaxy alone. And there are an estimated one trillion exoplanets.

Yes, discovery is cool, but I’m not sure we should party like it’s 1999 now that we found one of the trillion exoplanets. As scientists have actually seen just a few dozen exoplanets so far, we’ve got plenty of discovery possibilities to go. And don’t suggest that this finding might’ve simply been a Big Island gnat on that telescope. That would be cynical and astro-deflating.

In our insatiable quest to find out if we are, in fact, not alone in this universe, scientists are often wonderfully humble in admitting that they simply don’t know much about a lot of the things they spy on way, way out there. According to the Honolulu Star-Advertiser, the lead astronomer on this study stated, “The process is very complex. We don’t understand most of it”. How refreshing. If only Congress would admit as much about most of the overstuffed bills which regularly befuddle them.

It’s really cool when brilliant orbit oglers find things that may or may not be meaningful, and so rare to hear highly-accomplished people regularly say, “beats me” when asked for details. While I’d prefer if more time was spent exploring ways to save this planet before it becomes an ex-planet (not to be confused with hazy exoplanets) or more money was spent exploring the barely- understood ocean blue, kudos to UH stargazers for finding a (semi-) brand spanking new baby planet.

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On July 20, a Honolulu Fire truck was stolen on Farrington Highway on the leeward side. The suspect was apprehended, without incident, shortly thereafter. On August 2, four people scaled the Halawa Station HART fence and decided to traipse alongside the tracks and the now deadly (as it’s electrified for testing) third rail. Fortunately, no one was hurt… this time. On October 8, a man stole a loader dump truck and drove around erratically, causing consternation for other drivers and causing police to chase him ()stop and go) for almost five hours between downtown, Nimitz Highway, the Ala Moana area, and finally Kuhio Avenue. He was eventually captured after much HPD patience and some nervous moments. This was surely not the right type of entertainment to bring tourists back to Waikiki.

Perhaps you’re detecting a trend here?  A new breed of nonchalant, clueless and/or troubled individuals sees a vehicular or transit opening these days and simply takes it, literally! As for hopping a fence under with no sense of danger around rail tracks… well, now everyone knows. Death lurks as the track works. We might‘ve had our first HART “rider” fatality before the entity actually running, which occurs only if we get wheels that fit. At least a HART thief can’t take the train anywhere.

Maybe these are all warnings. The easy days of casually leaving a bus running or the car idling while you do your work or relax outside said vehicles are gone. Sensitive equipment and electronic-based remote systems often require responding pros to leave the motors humming. So far, this year, no one’s been seriously hurt. But if vehicular snatching can happen with a refuse vehicle and a fire truck, what about HPD patrol cars or ambulances? What about City, tour, and school buses? Maybe meandering miscreants have simply gotten bolder, or care less about consequences; thus ends the era of casually leaving one’s car/truck/bus/train/airplane purring.

Brazen bystanders locally now appear ready to enjoy a joyride when the moment strikes them, a concept over which first responders or any responders might have little control. Taking the keys out of vehicles would be counterproductive to the mission, or seem like an affront to decency and civility, but many of us also remember not having to lock up our houses years ago. As Chilliwack and Bad Company each sang, those days are sadly “gone, gone, gone”.

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You don’t know what you don’t know. And often, you don’t know it. Huh? Well, I know I don’t know how to fly a plane, but I’m cognizant of that fact. Sometimes it’s reassuring to find something that you simply didn’t know even existed, something of which you were unaware. It can light a fire, make you more curious, open new doors.

Like chico, otherwise known as sapodilla. It’s a tree which bears a funky fruit of the same name. Who knew? Maybe you did. But while tagging along with my seedling-seeking wife at a Waimanalo nursery recently, I spied a cardboard box that said “chico” as we were paying for our plant-able goods. The proprietor told me that chico fruit, which looks like a cross between a kiwi and a Russet potato, has the granular sensation of a pear and tastes like cinnamon. Cinnamon!? That’s my boo! The ultimate spice, a gift from above. Oh, by the way, seek out the more expensive Ceylon cinnamon; it’s healthier for you than garden variety cassia cinnamon.

So I bought a half dozen of the mundane chicos and waited for a slight give in their texture when pinched. I quartered them, removed the solo pit, and savored- nirvana! Who knew? Yet another local food treasure to add my palette. I am now on a chico quest, like a truffle-hunting pig, because chicos are surely not the centerpiece of your every day, local produce departments.

But they are available on farms, specialty grocers (Foodland Farms Ala Moana), and some farmer’s markets (KCC). I’ve since learned that sapodilla wood can be found in Mayan ruins. Ancient, tropical, and available. Yes, you simply don’t know what you don’t know. To learn of a luscious, nutritious new fruit at my overripe old age has been a real treat. Did you know there are perhaps 14 varieties of papaya, but well over 500 types of mangoes?! Trivia like this boggles one’s mind. Did you know that furry rambutans are laden with potassium and healthy folates?

We can go beyond kale, blueberries and walnuts to survive! So indulge yourself- it’s out there if you just look for it, or perhaps stumble upon it. And finally, despite a great marketing effort for green Actinidia deliciosa (kiwi), the gold/yellow kiwi variety pack more Vitamin C and sweetness. So check chicos, or find your own new passion.

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Kaizen is a Japanese term (actually first developed in the U.S. during the industrial World War II manufacturing frenzy) which means “change for the better” or “continuous improvement”. I’ve written/spoken about it before, but the value of this concept hit me last week when I saw a friend of mine who I hadn’t seen in two years because… well, you know why.

I was at a properly-attended social function when he happened to walk by. Instinctively I stood up and gave him a bro-hug, like we might’ve done casually just two years ago. It was a bit awkward, and I probably should’ve played the handshake-or-knuckles “hello” game, but emotions took over. After we said our pleasantries and “stay safe”, I started thinking about kaizen. We can’t recover everything, make the world go back to normal, recreate our lives from 2019 overnight. But we can take incremental steps.

Even as habits have changed since March, 2020, people are able to (somewhat) rationalize the “Covid-19” weight gain- in pounds. Try not to agonize over the daunting concept of losing 19 pounds, but perhaps focus on losing a pound every week or so. That may be manageable and doable. Success breeds confidence.

We are constantly reminded to get 30-minutes of exercise a day. But for many of us, the willpower, motivation, or wherewithal to do that just isn’t always there. But walking around the block once daily with the dog? That works. Seven-minutes? OK, it’s a start. Maybe in two weeks you’re up to walking around the block twice- 14 minutes. Incremental steps, piecemeal gains, but realistic goals to get you on your way.

Got the blues? Find little things to help make you happy. A song; a memory. I literally watched two ducks floating in a pond while waiting to tee off while playing golf last Saturday. Two ducks. They bobbed without a care in the world (I suppose). How tranquil, ideal, simple. I’m sure my blood pressure dropped a notch right there (especially after bogeying the preceding hole, an easy par 4).

At the end of the day, doing little pieces of something is better than doing a whole lot of nothing. Mountains are hard to climb if you gaze forlornly at the top, but the time has come to start focusing on smaller chunks- the next ridge, opportunity, success. Maybe that’s how we can find our way back.

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We hear it so often that its implications may not resonate: “Our keiki are our future”. Too often, those are merely words or political pontifications. But recently, three schools here were honored by the U.S. Department of Education- Mānoa Elementary, Ma`ema`e Elementary, and Wheeler Middle School. You might have missed this due to news ennui or numbing daily COVID numbers, but all three were designated as National Blue Ribbon Schools. Only 325 schools were awarded this honor nationwide. 

There are about 130,000 schools, grades K-12, across the U.S. and while all obviously don’t apply for this award, being anointed a Blue Ribbon winner means that something special is going on. Since 1982, the DOE annually honors schools nationwide “…based on their overall academic excellence or their progress in closing achievement gaps among student subgroups”, according to the U.S. Department of Education’s website.

Sure, every school has its challenges. There are great schools, teachers, and administrators in Hawai`i working tirelessly under less than ideal conditions far too often. Wheeler deals with its ever-changing military population, which also exaggerates staff turnover. Its award application stressed Wheeler’s attention to social and emotional aspects of growing up and learning beyond classroom mandates. With so many coming and going, creativity, flexibility, and patience are keys.

Ma’ema’e Elementary is using a strong, digital platform (especially during COVID) to enhance the school’s reputation of having solid neighborhood and parental involvement. Ma’ema’e and Mānoa Elementary test scores in math and English exceeded statewide averages by 18 to 27%. Mānoa has a strong PTA which passionately provides support and resources. And Mānoa Elementary fields a particularly strong robotics team which has repeatedly won awards at the state level, according to the Honolulu Star-Advertiser.

Pride, respect, innovation, empathy, teamwork, goal-setting, selflessness… These are traits our keiki should aspire to- everyone stroking the boat in the same direction, with egos left at the door. Kids who love playing with one another who learn to love learning. Committed parents getting involved. Young kids get along and treat everyone as equals; too often it’s adults that get in the way of this simple value.

The acknowledgment received by these noteworthy schools can hopefully serve as a role model for schools searching for guidance or a roadmap. Maybe these shining stars can alter mindsets and emphasize a “can do” attitude where others seem stuck in their ways or in their past.

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How much fun would it be? For one day, let’s promise not to discuss the C-word. Let’s take that break tomorrow. Let’s avoid talking about things over which we have no control… no, not that C-word. Let’s avoid chatting about the latest, ever-changing updates and worries regarding COVID-19. After 18-months, we could all use, and certainly need, a day off from COVID conversation. A day where we chat only about things under our control, things we enjoy yapping about, doing, watching, reading, seeing, and/or being around. We can check back on COVID stats the next day, if need be. Vaccinated, masked, distancing, avoiding static crowd settings, and washing our hands frequently- that’s our job and we can control that. But debilitating daily COVID discussions replaying like a non-fiction “Groundhog Day” run amok? Let’s choose to pass on that from time to time. Even for one day. We can make this effort like the staring game- see who blinks first. 

While we’re not yet able to celebrate our past normalcy and get back to familiar, pre-2020 patterns and relationships, let’s allow ourselves the freedom to not get bogged down in today’s delta-inflated, local COVID numbers, or who’s vaccinated and who’s not, or whether we should travel, or where, or when boosters will be allowed and to whom. Let’s wax philosophical about “Ted Lasso” and the new Doobie Brothers CD. Let’s regale ourselves in the vapidity of Emmy red carpet couture and memes du jour. Let’s party in our safe bubbles like its 1999, ratchet up the volume dial on our Prince music and dance the night away, with nary a C-word mentioned in our homes, texts, at work, or in the stores.

I’m not naïve; I do realize that COVID is a formidable, unrelenting foe, the elephant in every room everywhere we go. But perhaps we can (occasionally) mute this over-sized, unwelcome fixture of 2020/21. No lamenting COVID and its on-going toll for one conversation, one meal with (safe) loved ones, one day of anything but… 

It won’t make the situation disappear, but after 18-months of daily reminders, news stories, overdone vaccination video (we’ve got it, we know what that scenario looks like) and weekly/weakly medical recalibrations, it’ll sure make this ever-present nightmare a bit more palatable as we await the new reality when COVID ceases to be a daily, annoying preoccupation, and morphs into a pesky side show.

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It’s a bit early to start deciding the “feel-good” story of the year, but I know a contender when I see one. With the help of football, faith, family, friends, fortitude, and Florida, not to mention the incredible work of expert orthopedic doctors, trainers, and determined rehab specialists, Mckenzie Milton has risen. From the quarterback’s youth teams (which went 66-2!) through back-to-back state championship appearances at Mililani H.S., Milton proved himself to be a leader and a winner by age 18.

But he didn’t plan on becoming a nationwide inspiration. Fate, and deep faith, sometimes come together to provide lessons which seem unfair and devastating, yet ultimately turn lives around, occasionally in spectacular fashion. On November 23, 2018, University of Central Florida’s Milton took a helmet to his right knee in a football game. The injury was gruesome and serious- right knee dislocation plus ligament, artery, and nerve damage that led numerous medical experts to suggest that amputation might be necessary. Medical miracle men acted quickly and saved Milton’s leg. The thinking then was- after three leg surgeries- IF he walks again, he’ll be in great pain… for the rest of his life.

Milton persevered for three years of repetitive, excruciating rehab. He then transferred to Florida State. Why? His QB spot at UCF had been taken over by Dillon Gabriel and, as if this story could cause any more chicken skin, Gabriel had been Milton’s understudy at Mililani… and followed Milton to UCF! As he healed and realized that there was a new Trojan hero at UCF in Orlando, Milton calmly moved his football future to perennial powerhouse, Florida State.

In his first game back, 1,017 days after almost losing his leg on the gridiron, Mckenzie Milton rallied his new team from a 10-point, 4^th quarter deficit to a 38-38 tie against #7-ranked Notre Dame. Alas, the Seminoles fell in overtime, 41-38. His surreal heroics were inspirational on so many levels. Football fans, his family, doctors, trainers, coaches, teammates, local pals- all must’ve shed tears amid their fears. Akamai viewers wondered where the Disney camera crew was hiding. Could this really be happening?!

No matter what happens next, Mckenzie Milton has proven through his humble efforts that miracles do come true. He went from “can’t do” to “did do.” While his journey continues, it’s already a 2021 feel-good story that we all surely need nowadays.

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